Re: How Narcissistic Parents Affect Their Kids
Here is my long list of how narcissism has affected my family:
My mom broke up my brothers marriage by constantly bad mouthing my sister in law to my brother. She did underhanded things to make her look bad to everyone and in front of everyone.
My mom claimed that my oldest son was hers on multiple occasions, to me, in front of others. She used to say that he was OURS as if me and her conceived a child together.
My mom has claimed that my brother is her husband to multiple people and in front of his wife.
Once my mom beat me when she thought I was pregnant, she claimed my sister in law told her I was...so she beat the heck out of me. When I confronted my sister in law about this, she said that she had not even discussed anything at all to do with me being pregnant.
When I was around 10-11 years old, my dad told me that one day I was going to come home from school and find my mom dead, this was after he threatened to throw me out of a second story picture window. This all came about after my mom went to get feminine products at the store for me and my dad was bad mouthing her while she was gone, so I told him that she HAD to go to town because we were out of things that I needed. After he got violent, I ran over to my grandmothers house. My mom came home and beat me because she claimed that I "ran away".
My mom decided that the school just makes up stuff when they cannot control the kids and thus why my youngest son might have autism, she thinks it was my fault, and told my oldest son that it was because I didn't discipline him right.
When I was pregnant with my daughter, my mom refused to come to the hospital to see her, she also denied knowing me to one of my professors who called my emergency number (which was her number) to see how I was doing. She didn't see her for almost a month later even though we lived on the same street.
My mom uses my oldest son by triangulating him between us. She has done this his whole life and has actually used money and gifts to bribe him. He is 26 years old and he still does not recognize that she does it.
She invited people to my middle sons testicular surgery...without asking him. This was a traumatizing surgery for him because he lost his testicle and the other one had to be stapled in. She discussed it on end with the people that she invited.