How to move on and stop loving my husband
I've been married for 11 years and we have two boys ages 7 and 10. My husband works out of town a lot and sometimes does not contact me for days. It hurts me that he doesn't call and I feel neglected, unwanted and lonely. I've asked if there is someone else but he has there is no one. I guess I just don't trust him. By the way, I tried to contact him without luck, the last time I heard from him was three days ago. He treats me well when he is in town, he never complains and still says he loves me eventhough I nag him. Don't get me wrong, he is no Mr Perfect Husband either. We are starting to see a counsellor so maybe we can salvage this marriage. I wish that I have no feelings for him anymore. I want to be able to move on and no longer love him. That way, whatever he is doing I wouldn't care anymore. I can't move forward if I still have feelings for him for him. Any suggestions on how to get over him?
Am I approaching this the wrong way? Thanks for reading.