so this past week was christmas and it was my husbands and my 6th month old sons first so needless to say he had a lot more new toys, clothes and just a lot of stuff. and of course everything my husband and i recieved from our family. we had to drive around town all day to see our familes so we would stop by our place in between houses and drop off everything we had gotten. by the end of the day the apartment was full of boxes and toys.
when we finally got home it was late and time to put the baby to bed. after that i wanted to straigten things up a bit before laying down because i had to work the next morning. my husband said not to worry about it that we would take care of it later.
the next day i went to work and my husband was off and was watching our son. the only thing he did all day was wash a half sink worth of dishes. i got home and wanted to clean but he again said not to worry we'd take care of it later. so i didnt.
the next day we both worked while my step father watched our son and would keep him over night. so when i got home that night i started to clean but didnt get to much done just stuff out of their boxes. when he got home we went out to grab a quick bite to eat for dinner and when we got back we watched the rest of a movie we started to watch the night before. after the movie i started to finish cleaning. he said he had a headache and was to tired and didnt fell well enough to help out. i understood so i finished cleaning and had a huge pile of laundry to do. he said he would take care of it the next day. he stayed awake til 2 am playing video games
he only worked a half day and only got one load done. i had asked him to set out dinner...he didnt...i asked him to leave me a few bucks for when i got home...he didnt...then he came home early...actually while i was typing this. he didnt do any of the things that i asked him to do..and to find out he sent out a past due bill even later and with out a stamp and now it will be even more late.
every simple thing i ask cant be done, what am i supposed to do: do everything myself, work 40 hours a week compared to him 30, clean, cook, laundry and fit in time to spend with my son and husband?
how do i get him to help out more, at least do the things i ask?
when we finally got home it was late and time to put the baby to bed. after that i wanted to straigten things up a bit before laying down because i had to work the next morning. my husband said not to worry about it that we would take care of it later.
the next day i went to work and my husband was off and was watching our son. the only thing he did all day was wash a half sink worth of dishes. i got home and wanted to clean but he again said not to worry we'd take care of it later. so i didnt.
the next day we both worked while my step father watched our son and would keep him over night. so when i got home that night i started to clean but didnt get to much done just stuff out of their boxes. when he got home we went out to grab a quick bite to eat for dinner and when we got back we watched the rest of a movie we started to watch the night before. after the movie i started to finish cleaning. he said he had a headache and was to tired and didnt fell well enough to help out. i understood so i finished cleaning and had a huge pile of laundry to do. he said he would take care of it the next day. he stayed awake til 2 am playing video games
he only worked a half day and only got one load done. i had asked him to set out dinner...he didnt...i asked him to leave me a few bucks for when i got home...he didnt...then he came home early...actually while i was typing this. he didnt do any of the things that i asked him to do..and to find out he sent out a past due bill even later and with out a stamp and now it will be even more late.
every simple thing i ask cant be done, what am i supposed to do: do everything myself, work 40 hours a week compared to him 30, clean, cook, laundry and fit in time to spend with my son and husband?
how do i get him to help out more, at least do the things i ask?