My husband says he's "confused" and "might" leave, but still wants to be intimate.
We've been together for 11 years, married for 6 1/2. I lost my virginity to him. I love him dearly, always have. We have 2 small children together.
We've had a rough 2 years. Job losses, financial problems, a miscarriage, etc. I haven't been the most supportive wife and I know that. He hasn't been the best husband either, but I think I've definitely not been a great wife.
He is confused and says he MIGHT leave. We have had 4 or 5 really honest discussions and I want to work on our marriage. I've acknowledged my mistakes and am working very hard on making things right. I can't be perfect, but I want to do everything in my power to save my marriage.
He says that he doesn't know if he can ever forgive me for not being supportive and he might leave.
He says he will let me know when and if he decides to leave.
And I'm supposed to just sit here, working on our marriage wondering if/when he's going to leave?! It's heartbreaking.
He's very distant to me and I can tell he's not happy, even when I'm doing everythign to make him happy.
The only time he's happy is when we're intimate, and he tells me he loves me, and all of these romantic things. He wants to be intimate quite often, even after having said this.
He says he still loves me but doesn't know if he can forgive me.
I can't even EAT or think about anything else because I'm always worrying if he's going to leave me and why he's toying with my emotions.
What can I do?? Please help.