07-05-2009, 06:30 PM
Join Date: Sep 2008
Location: Republic (in the Ozarks), MO
| | Re: Messed Up Situation
Lilly_daddy, I think you should get your DW into counseling.
She has you for a doormat, providing everything she wants.
Once the bills are down, stop your extra job. Next time you go shopping, bring back ramen and beans. Tell her that's what you all will be eating until she gets a job.
You are making a LOT of effort (which is commendable)...but stop doing that! You are enabling her.
That kind of effort is great in the short term; but, NOT good for the long term.
It ain't illegal until you're caught!