01-10-2013, 05:54 AM
Join Date: Nov 2009
| | Re: Dating someone and making a friend
Honesty is the Best in any situation like this, if you aren't honest with your 18 month Girlfriend about being fixed up and meeting another (going out alone type thing)... it IS deception...it is a hiding, a secret.
There is nothing wrong, if you are having doubts about a relationship, if you feel this isn't going to work out, to meet another, it's your life, it's your future. You don't want to go into a marriage with a bunch of What IF's/ Only IF's.... after the fact, the time is NOW...while dating to sort all of this out.
Being together for 18 months, you've probably had a # of healthy arguments by now.....how is the Communication? Do you actively work with each other for a resolution.... not walking away from each other, giving silent treatment behavior...but ironing it out...finding peace with each other, even if it may be to "agree to disagree" at times.
What are your issues?