01-20-2013, 11:27 PM
Join Date: Apr 2012
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| | Re: Doesn't know if he wants kids.
he just doesn't know if he wants any of his own. He said he's open to discussing it eventually and if all the conditions were perfect he would want them
WHOA, slow it down there, Jerico!
You ALREADY have a child. YOU *KNOW* the conditions are NEVER gonna be 'perfect' to have a child. You never have enough money, your career is never in the perfect place, the house is never the perfect size/location/schools for kids.
If he's waiting for 'perfect', you *KNOW* it's NEVER GONNA HAPPEN. He either doesn't know what it's going to involve, or he's talking you in circles. Neither one is acceptable (especially not at 31yo).