It's time for THE Separation TALK

wild_angel2302 · 07-11-2009, 08:27 PM

Okay... I posted awhile back about my whole situation. I received some great advice from some wonderful ppl here (thank you!)!

Unfortunately, nothing has changed between my husband and me. I've finally decided that it's time for me to talk with him about Separation. How do I bring this up?? He knows I'm not happy and I'm almost positive he knows this is the next step. But I'm scared.... I care for my husband, but our marriage has never worked! And I’m sick of giving my everything for nothing!

We have two children and I'm sure there will be no fighting about them living with me. Considering I'm the only one who actually takes care of them!

Any advice on the subject of Separation would be greatly appreciated!
Thank you all!
April

dcrim · 07-11-2009, 08:40 PM

Because my wife and were just roomies, I gave her a note saying that we needed to talk. Later we did and decided that separation was next for us.

I don't know any good way to start the discussion. But once it's started, it will go.

wild_angel2302 · 07-11-2009, 08:45 PM

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Originally Posted by dcrim

Because my wife and were just roomies, I gave her a note saying that we needed to talk. Later we did and decided that separation was next for us.

I don't know any good way to start the discussion. But once it's started, it will go.

The note sounds like a good starting point....
Atleast I have an idea now. Thank you.