01-25-2013, 07:27 AM
Join Date: Nov 2012
| | Re: Wife TOO emotional
check out this thread, Conflicted, Confused and Crushed.....this is a long one
. It gives amazing insight into the world of BPD. Read the posts by Uptown. If you wife doesn't have this, she has some kind of personality disorder. If she doesn't get help, things look very bleak for you. The disorder will be the elephant in the room and you will have to live your life walking on eggshells for fear of setting her off. It will control you, your family, your decisions, your sanity. You will blame yourself for many things and find that your are apologizing for things that aren't really wrong, but to keep the peace. Your exasperation and unhappiness will grown because nothing you can do can fix it and the pain it causes and your resentment will grow.
You have to decide if you can live this way, and life will get more challenging. Don't become a shell of a man, besides yourself because of this. If things don't change, whether it's your wife getting the help she needs, or you learning how to be excellent at dealing with this, you have to make the hard decision on whether you should stay or go. If you want kids, do you want her to be the mother of your children?