My wife hates I have a daughter and it is killing me
I registed just to get some feedback from some unbiased people about my situation. I just got married 6 weeks ago and I love everything about my wife except for the fact that in her words, she "hates the fact I have a daughter" from a previous relationship. I pick up my daughter every wednesday and every other friday and try to do fun things with her, but my wife just treats this beautiful 3 year old girl like she is the plague. She won't say hello to her unless my daughter says hello first, she even has admitted to given her dirty looks out of jealously, she hates the fact that I always tell my daughter how cute and beautiful she looks today, and has even called my daughter a "brat", "spoiled", and "ugly" behind her back to me. She also refers to my daughter as my ex's daughter and that my daughter is only 50% mine not 100% because it's with my ex. Her jealously of my ex runs so deep that she even gets mad when my ex's 5 year old daughter says hello to me and wants to give me a hug when I go to pick my daughter up. She then calls the 5 year-old "ugly" and has "huge ears" when we get to my car and gets mad becuase I tell her to knock it off. She also tells me that when we have a daughter that our daughter is going to be the "cutest" girl ever and gets mad at me because I say that I would never call one of my daughter's cuter than the other. It is so childish and petty, but it absolutely breaks my heart to see my little girl getting talked about like this when she does nothing but treat my wife good. She is an innocent child. I love EVERYTHING about my wife EXCEPT for this, but it is a MAJOR EXCEPTION. We keep having arguments about it because I ask her why the hell did she ever even date me(forget marrying me) when I told her the first 15 minutes I met her that I had a daughter and loved her so much. I spoil my wife so good and do everything for her, but she simply can't accept the fact I have a daughter and it crushes me. I feel like a bad father because I am even scared to shower my little girl with love and compliments when my wife is around because I don't want to see her get mad, roll her eyes, or ignore me all day. It is really a terrible situation and it is waying on my conscience so bad. I really feel like a bad father because I don't even have my little girl sleep over my house because I don't want to deal with the moodiness from my wife over it. It really sucks and I want to be a great dad and have my daughter grow up loving me to death. I am blessed to have a good financial situation and I'm even scared to buy my little girl things here and there(even though I can afford it) because my wife thinks I pay too much child support. Any advice would be appreciated. I'm seriously thinking of divorce because I can't deal with this much longer. She keeps telling me she will change, but I never see it. She rags on my ex 24/7 daily even though I don't even talk to my ex ever. Sorry for the long post, but I needed to get everything said.