This weekend we are going to celebrate stepsons birthday as he is not living with us... so we are limited as to which days we can do this.
I must say, his mother bought him a new vehicle 6 months ago and I don't understand why she would do this for a boy who wasn't even old enough to drive, unless its some form of bribery... or to make herself look good.
I feel its foolish, but if she wants to spend her money on foolishness and create a slacker, thats her business as we are moving far, far away soon and he will be her problem that SHE created and will have to deal with.
What we are going to do this weekend, as he is 16, will be his first time to drive over for his visitation
and I plan to get him a novelty cake, perhaps one that looks like a cheeseburger...
My husband bought him a fancy mobile radio from Sams, although I fear his son will say something snobby, like " I have a stero, better than this radio".... and I sure hope he doesn't do that... and I'm sure husband will give him 40-50 dollars too.
I bought him a car emergency kit with jumper cables, fix a flat, etc...
and we are making him his favorite meal, grilled steaks/ french fries.
My husbands kids.... and what he and his family believe is to celelbrate birthdays until age 18 and then just a card. After 18 there is no more gifts or money.
His daughter is already over 18 and she is getting nothing but a card. She has severe emotional and behavioral issues and we just pray she will start to grow up but realize she may remain as is, a creation of her mother ( a snobby bratty but ignorant young woman with a HUGE sense of entitlement--- her mother can deal with that since she created it)
A lot of work for his son of his... as well as expense... I can only hope he appriciates it.

Not feeling super good about this because he has become very snobby since his mother bought him a new truck 6 months ago.