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Old 07-25-2009, 07:21 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Unhappy lonely

It's been awhile since I have said anything on this website but I feel the need to vent. Right about now I am feeling lonely in my relationship, if that makes sense. My husband the other day decided to drop off my son to camp and not return until 5:30 that afternoon. No phone call or anything. He was laid off so I know he was not at work. So I was upset I did not say anything. The next morning he says hello to me like nothing happend. I said oh now you want to talk. From there he gets mad and says we can keep this going. He does not see what he did as wrong and said I could of called him but he was the one who left and did not returned. That's not his personality and I know he was doing that on purpose. My husband walks in and out of the house whenever he feels like it which I don't mind and for the most part he says where he is going but it bothers me that he does not have any consideration for my feelings at times and see's things completely different. So it has been 2 days and we are not talking I feel sad, bitter and alone that we are not talking. He seems ok, but he has mentioned to his friends that we are not talking and he does not know why. That's not true he just does not want to admit he had any wrong doing.
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Old 07-25-2009, 08:48 AM   #2 (permalink)
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I understand what your saying and at one time in my life I had those feelings....
until I learned more about life.

Marriage does not cure lonliness.
If you are married in hopes of curing it, it won't happen. Your marriage partner in no way can fill you with all your human needs, esp cure that one.
Some lonliness is just part of the human condition and lonliness can result from lack of interaction with others and a life of meaning. The way to cure lonliness has to do with helping others and also filling your spirit with some type of spirituality.
Your arguement with your husband seems to be turning into games as maybe the two of you are unable to resolve conflict through commincation and maybe something to learn and seek help with if unable to communicate effectively to resolve conflict.
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