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Old 03-22-2013, 11:29 AM   #1 (permalink)
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It may sound odd, but I want to increase my sensitivity down there to be able to climax sooner. I have no problem getting it up and staying up, but it can take nearly a hour or longer to actually climax.

Any suggestions? Don't really care for topical creams and such, but open to just about anything...
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but it can take nearly a hour or longer to actually climax.
Oh behalf of (almost) all women out there ---

OUCH!
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Oh behalf of (almost) all women out there ---

OUCH!
LOL...thanks for the empathy. The silver lining in it all is my wife always gets hers first, usually more than once...

I just feel bad sometimes because sometimes I know it bites at her ego a bit that I am not easily satisfied by her. I think the fastest I've been able to get off is 30 minutes. I know because now she times it...

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YIKES...yeah it doesn't matter if she gets hers first(or more than once) that long will rub you raw.that's why she is timing it LOL!

Hate to say it but have you tried having sex less often?Or does this happen every time no matter how long its been?How often do you have sex?
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YIKES...yeah it doesn't matter if she gets hers first(or more than once) that long will rub you raw.that's why she is timing it LOL!

Hate to say it but have you tried having sex less often?Or does this happen every time no matter how long its been?How often do you have sex?
I wish we did everyday, but typically 1 or 2 times a week. We can go a week and it will be the same result. I hate to say it but she is the only person I've had this problem with....
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I wish we did everyday, but typically 1 or 2 times a week. We can go a week and it will be the same result. I hate to say it but she is the only person I've had this problem with....
Hmmm..then its probably not an issue with "sensitivity" then in groin area but maybe something more to do with whats happening between the ears ?Are you "in the moment" with her during sex or does your mind 'wander"..about other things???
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I wish we did everyday, but typically 1 or 2 times a week. We can go a week and it will be the same result. I hate to say it but she is the only person I've had this problem with....
In your case if you did it everyday your wife wouldn't be able to sit down without a special seat cushion.(permanently)she probably needs a day or 2 as it is to get over the last time to be able to go 2 times a week.
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Hmmm..then its probably not an issue with "sensitivity" then in groin area but maybe something more to do with whats happening between the ears ?Are you "in the moment" with her during sex or does your mind 'wander"..about other things???
Uhm...I think I am "in the moment". I will really want it, and I find her very attractive. We get into it but sometimes it just takes alot of time it seems...
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There isn't a pill I can take or something?
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There isn't a pill I can take or something?
Uhh...haven't heard of one.You could ask a doctor.Only reason I mentioned it might me "in between the ears" is its only your wife you have this problem with.And the only reason its even a problem is you aren't happy with it sounds like she isn't either?And 1-2 times a week sex "shouldnt" lower your sensitivity to that extreme.I could see if you were having sex once or twice a day and eventually it took "too long" in your opinion and hers.And to be frank an hour sometimes more is a long time.Especially if you are talking about PIV thrusting much of that time.
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have her tell you no.

amazingly when I have to work for it I get much more aroused.
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There isn't a pill I can take or something?
Go have a workup..a male horomone evaluation.The only time I hear of problems with that is mostly guys losing interest in sex or not being able to obtain and keep an erection .Thats not your problem though..I do know (have heard) some guys can have issues orgasming.I would recommend ruling out its physical 1st.It could also be its "your normal" and nothing is "wrong" at all.Or it could be psychological because you are only this way with your wife.
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have her tell you no.

amazingly when I have to work for it I get much more aroused.
Yeah sometimes "too easy" is a turn off..or lets say not quite as exciting or not for long anyway.
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quit watching porn and masterbating. if you do it in the first place.


or maybe you don't really love her and thats why it takes soooooo long.

I know when I'm pi$$ed it can take forever and sometimes I can't complete to deal.....orgasm.


or try the other hole its tighter.....LOL
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Try several new positions. One good position is her lying on her belly legs closed, and you lying on top of her. If you aren't particularly heavy it's not uncomfortable for either of you, and the friction is amazing.

Or as chilly suggested... go to the other hole. LOL
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