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Old 03-26-2013, 06:17 AM   #1 (permalink)
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I am asking for feedback from all you guys reading this. Why would a man hide a video camera in the bathroom for weeks and not tell his wife? Should I be worried that videos have been posted online, does he not trust me, or is there some other explanation?
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Do you have children!?
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Did you ask him for an explanation?
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Old 03-26-2013, 07:04 AM   #4 (permalink)
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This is odd....... I'm with Holland. Did you confront and ask him about it?
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LouAnn does have a point as well. Do you have any children?
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That's wrong on so many levels for so many reasons.
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Those are the actions of a person who doesn't respect you, and your privacy has been invaded in a most despicable way! This is not a person who's words or deeds can be trusted, no matter what his explanations are. If you have children RUN!
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Yes its wrong.A complete violation.A possible explanation though could be hes a voyeur.But you are going to have to confront him one way or the other especially on the off chance he is putting those images online.
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A hidden camera in the home,in ANY room, if put there without your knowledge is a huge violation of trust and privacy.The fact that it's a camera in the bathroom makes it all the more sickening and creepy.I hope you first rip that damn camera out of whatever hiding place it's currently in and second I hope you confront him with it and demand an explanation.

Unless there's more to your story that you aren't sharing such as affairs and things along that line that would cause a man to go crazy enough to hide a camera in the home...
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I agree with the others. This is an invasion of privacy, and a major concern if you have kids.
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news flash- there are creepy men out there who get off on sharing hidden camera videos of their wives (or worse children) or other women with likeminded creeps
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Old 03-26-2013, 07:52 AM   #12 (permalink)
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I think you can rule out "doesn't trust me". If he suspected an affair, the camera would be in the bedroom. This sounds like pervert play (unless maybe there were prescription meds in the cabinet and he was trying to catch someone stealing them). Where is the focus of the camera? If it's on the shower or the toilet, it's perv play. If it's on the medicine cabinet, he might be guarding something in the cabinet.
Who else uses your bathroom?
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Where was it pointed and what sort cam was it.?

Was it actually recording or just bring used to each live?

Do you have a habit of spending time in the bathroom texting or talking on the phone?
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At the time he hid the camera, we did not have children. I've just always wondered why he did this. At the time, I had a job that was very flexible and I could work from home. Around this time, there were times in which 2 or 3 weeks went by without him being interested in sex, but he spent time in our home office on the computer in the mornings. I expressed to him at the time that I was tempted to look elsewhere because my needs were not being met, though I never cheated. I had noticed some lights in the bathroom at night (tiny red/green dots) shining through a hole in a box and I checked it out one day. He did not confess to knowing anything about the camera until I suggested we call the police in case there was some pervert in the neighborhood. So he had hidden the camera and then lied to me. It's been years since this happened but it still bothers me.
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Demand to see the contents of the camera and ask WHY its there.
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