08-10-2009, 05:41 AM
Join Date: Mar 2008
| | Re: jealous for no good reason
the Green monster is very tough to beat.
Jealousy usually is the person who is "jealous" own mind going in circles, over thinking, etc It can be very distruptive where it ends up hurting family members for what ever reason.
This is something you need to get over and only you can beat it.
Thre is no "miricle cure" it is all in your mind. You need to take time and think, maybe some meditation.
you ahve to beat it, you ahve to reason within your own mind and thing "why am I jealous?"
I admit I was a jealous person when I first met my wife, I never showed it, but I had bad prior experiences.
It took time, there is no switch, but slowoly but surely you ahve to out "think" your own mind, don't allow the jealous thougths take over.
Get Jealous? go running, lift weights, do some sort of exercise that will soak up that adrienine.
It is a thinking game, don't let it win.
everyone gets jealous, just don't let it control you. My wife actually wishes I would get more jealous more often. I learned to control it.
think other things or use it to your advantage.