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Right now we have a three bedroom house with eight people living in it. we are strapped for room as it is. the only thing we have open is the beanbag in the office right off my bedroom. He did that for a week.
yay. Sandy's back (ok, so I've missed a lot recently).
I disagree...I think it's HIM that's playing the games...trying to see just how far, how long he can string her for whatever stupid sadistic reasons. Snix needs to go cold turkey, IMHO.
Snix has done more than most would consider humanly possible to salvage this. He doesn't want it.
He tells her she is playing mind games with him because he KNOWS no woman in her right mind would take such crap.
He has no RESPECT for Snix because SHE is willing to be a doormat for him to clean his nasty self on. He knows himself what HE is, and therefore HE has not a ounce of love or respect for her.
He lives with Snix because he can USE her for whatever he wants whenever he wants. Any little scrap of attention he gives her, good or bad, she just laps up.
wasn't very hard. You jusdt make them feel unwelcome as hell,
stop buying any food for them, remove all the sheets, towels, unplug the washing machine, make life in your home as unappealing as can be.
Before you do all that go to home depot and get new door locks and a few 2x4's...
cut the 2x4's to prop up against the locked door in case he tries to kick it in later.
Box up all the dishes and pots and pans and put them in the shed...
same with all the soap and towels.
Put a box of laundry soap in the bathroom for him...
turn off the hot water heater at the main switch....
tell him where all the single female neighbors live and suggest he go visit them, as maybe he can find a new place, with hot water, soap, dishes, pots, pans and towels.
wasn't very hard. You jusdt make them feel unwelcome as hell,
stop buying any food for them, remove all the sheets, towels, unplug the washing machine, make life in your home as unappealing as can be.
Before you do all that go to home depot and get new door locks and a few 2x4's...
cut the 2x4's to prop up against the locked door in case he tries to kick it in later.
Box up all the dishes and pots and pans and put them in the shed...
same with all the soap and towels.
Put a box of laundry soap in the bathroom for him...
turn off the hot water heater at the main switch....
tell him where all the single female neighbors live and suggest he go visit them, as maybe he can find a new place, with hot water, soap, dishes, pots, pans and towels.
geeebuz preso. while i'm in "camping at stalag 4 mode" - i'm assuming also running about with loaded weapons and a stern look, what do i tell my kids about no food, water or soap?
I'd be working two jobs flipping burgers, and a third one throwing newspapers in yards at 5am OR tell him there is a spot on the carpet, you sleep there and MEAN it if he wanted to pay the bills for me.
Re: How to have a real talk? 
