Re: How To Handle Birthday Parties For Kids With Your Ex?
I suggested the two party thing, no go. These aren't just words, I don't even know what that means to be honest? (to the person who asked that one...) Then I suggested she have it at her house and I'd have some cake or something here afterwards, (meaning we wouldn't have tension or awkwardness at my daughters bday), no go. (I guess that's two parties still though). So now I have to kick my gf out for the afternoon because my stbx is being a royal PIA?
My stbx is not letting up on the "let's fix things" b.s. Just two days ago she suggested we get back together again. (This is the second time she's done this). I think now her motives are to create stress in my new relationship, which is why two parties ain't gonna happen. My stbx seems to be trying to drive my GF and I apart. If my stbx is not happy then apparently I'm not allowed to be happy either.
My stbx keeps asking me to sit down and talk to her. I don't want to. I don't care what she has to say as I don't believe her and I certainly don't trust her. We recently booked some counseling for the kids and apparently her and I have to go in for a session to give the counselor "background"? I don't really believe that but I have to go for my kids. I have a bad feeling it's a ploy to get me and her in front of a counselor. If it is that, I'm walking out. I'm hate wasting my time and energy on this person who hurt me so badly in the past. I have no use for her anymore.
If there were no kids involved I would never speak to my stbx again.
Last edited by Isuck; 04-15-2013 at 03:46 PM.