08-13-2009, 09:03 AM
Join Date: Aug 2009
| | Do you have FREQUENT date nights?
As you might notice from another post of mine, I do not have the most perfect marriage! BUT, in the process of doing some soul searching, I wanted to ask some opinions.
How often do you and your significant other (parents) have a date night? Will your wife or husband insist on leaving the children with a nanny or sitter at every chance they get? Don’t get me wrong, we normally have a scheduled date night once a week. However, we were moving last week and my husband wanted to leave our kids with the nanny IN A NEW HOUSE while the movers were still unloading – so we could go out to dinner and get margaritas. I didn’t agree with that and it didn’t happen, but I thought that was odd behavior for a parent. Maybe I am wrong? Please tell me honestly!
Also, every marriage has rough patches, but how common is it for your significant other to try to “turn you on” and then suggest you go masturbate? My DH started telling me to go put on something sexy and to do that! This…even though..he doesn’t really initiate intercourse.
I am just trying to ask the questions I can’t ask the people I know! Please be honest! Thanks!