Please tell me I am wrong and I will drop it. I married my current wife 3 years ago. Before that I was married for 20 years and had three children. My current wife has two kids from her prior marriage. Most of the time we are doing great,recently we have started to have issues. The issues center around kids and her ex-husband.
I feel she has too much communication with her ex-husband. They have remained friends, "for the sake of the kids." She is in communication with him on a weekly and sometimes daily basis. All communication is about her children. I don't have a problem with that communication. Although,when I hear her on the phone laughing at his jokes,etc. I become jealous. On one occasion I became fairly upset. One of her daughters was treating her very badly and the first thing she did was call him. I could tell from the conversation he was comforting her. I also have complained about the way she communicates with him. It's like they still have this connection. Granted,the communication is always about the kids but it appears they are too connected.
She has on more than one occasion told me that they became better friends after the divorce than before. He would be at her apartment constantly fixing things and doing stuff for her. All the while,he was remarried. That did stop after I met her.
My wife asked me a couple of weeks ago to take off work in one month so I could take my step-daughter to get her license. I took off that day and was planning to take her. This morning she informed me her ex-husband was going to take my step-daughter for the driving test in two weeks. Since she is learning to drive with our car she was planning on him taking our car. Am I wrong to be upset about this? I really don't want him taking our car. If he wants to take her let him take his own car. I should probably say,he has not taken her driving since she started learning. My wife and I have done all that.
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