Re: I am tired of trying
I totally understand where you are coming from. My husband and I argue about everything... It is draining. I finally decided I didn't want to fight any more. Now we are fighting about the separation/divorce. I love him, but I resent so much that I get angry and bitter every time I try to talk to him. But then I cry because I wish it hadn't come to this.
Counseling may help if you think that there is hope. Unfortunately, it's not free. Compromise is important and learning how to communicate with each other. Often times assumptions are made, and this causes the problems and arguments.