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Old 02-08-2008, 07:19 AM   #1 (permalink)
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hi, i have been with my partner for 7 years, we have had a bad few months and he started seeing another girl. we split for january and contiunued to try and work thins out. last thursday we decided to make a go of it, and i told him to he had to finish with this girl. he said he has, however, i think he saw her saturday and again yesterday and stayed at a hotel. im throught the hurt, pain and anger - do i tell him to go??? any advice welcome thanks
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Old 02-08-2008, 07:50 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Hi! I think your partner needs to make a decision on which person he would like to be with. It isn't fair of him to have his cake and eat it too. It's like wanting to have the best of both worlds. When my husband does stuff like that, I make him decide on one. Tell him he needs to figure out who means more to him and who would he rather be with. In the meantime, hope for the best and prepare for the worst. Good luck to you!
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I would take control of your life and make the decision for him. You deserve more. Remember you are a wonderful person and dont let anyone make you feel any different.
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Old 02-09-2008, 01:57 AM   #4 (permalink)
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I think he has already broken your trust and as long as he feels he can get away with things I doubt he will change his double life. More on and find a guy worthy of your love, time and attention.

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