09-08-2009, 02:47 PM
Join Date: May 2009
| | Re: wife refuses to talk about our issues
Originally Posted by Really worried
only things i can get from her is, Ive been a terrible husband for 14 years, and now I try to hard to be the perfect husband and it wont make up for the past.
any advice ?
i dont go out, dont drink hardly at all, no porn, but I do take an occassional nap
It's hard to get past resentment in a relationship, once it sets in. Did you ask her specifically what events she is so resentful about? and what you can do to help her get past them?
Is she realisitc or does she just want to be mad? as some people love and thrive off drama.
so... are you allowing her to vent and trying to get to the specific issues that resulted in this?