Re: My husband is a liar. He lies about stupid things that most people don't lie abou
Goodkatt, is this something that has always been a problem? I'm no expert on addictions, but was there some problem/trauma that set him on the road to excessive drinking? Perhaps finding out what that is, and tackling it, might be a good place to start. It may be something he has been keeping from you, and is manifesting itself in the drinking and lying to cover his tracks.
13 years is a long time to be together, and you can't let him throw it all away without a fight.