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Old 09-23-2009, 07:46 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Some of you will have read my previous threads and know what has happened in the past. After a month or two of trying to work things out and my h being more attentive to me and generally a lot better I am just not sure if I still want him. He will buy me what I want and I have got a few things but overall he has still spent more on himself than me. When i do buy things he is always wanting me to buy nice underwear and dress up for him. He wants sex ("make love") to me every day which is a pain in the **** but he does get it. He is always wanting me to dress up for him, I don't mind but it is every week. He always wants to cuddle up to me on the couch every night before going to bed.

He still moans about my phone if I take it out of my bag when he is not there, says I never normally do that, moans if I want to go for a walk with my friend. He wants to spend all of his time with me and I just want a bit space to do my own thing. I loved it the other night when he was out so I could just get on with things in the house.

He does not want me working where I work as it is mainly a male inviroment. He never bothered before but thinks there is something going on at my work as I will not take a sickie for him. Also tells me I do nothing for him still.

If I do not want to do something he thinks I am up to something. We have just been away with the kids and it was great. Maybe I am different when we are home as reality seems to hit back in.

Any advice?
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Old 09-23-2009, 08:00 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Getting away is great. It allows the daily stuff to go away and refocus on the important things in life which are your family. He is way to smothering. I am sure you talked to him about it but you might have to explain to him that if he continues you will be forced to leave. That he has to try and give you some space. If the threat of leaving doesn't do it try and seperate. Not saying do any divorce things just tell him you need to think..
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