09-23-2009, 08:46 AM
Join Date: Sep 2008
| | Just not sure anymore
Some of you will have read my previous threads and know what has happened in the past. After a month or two of trying to work things out and my h being more attentive to me and generally a lot better I am just not sure if I still want him. He will buy me what I want and I have got a few things but overall he has still spent more on himself than me. When i do buy things he is always wanting me to buy nice underwear and dress up for him. He wants sex ("make love") to me every day which is a pain in the **** but he does get it. He is always wanting me to dress up for him, I don't mind but it is every week. He always wants to cuddle up to me on the couch every night before going to bed.
He still moans about my phone if I take it out of my bag when he is not there, says I never normally do that, moans if I want to go for a walk with my friend. He wants to spend all of his time with me and I just want a bit space to do my own thing. I loved it the other night when he was out so I could just get on with things in the house.
He does not want me working where I work as it is mainly a male inviroment. He never bothered before but thinks there is something going on at my work as I will not take a sickie for him. Also tells me I do nothing for him still.
If I do not want to do something he thinks I am up to something. We have just been away with the kids and it was great. Maybe I am different when we are home as reality seems to hit back in.