09-24-2009, 04:21 AM
Join Date: Sep 2009
| | Should i just give upon this relationship?
In a nutshell- been married 20years, good lifestyle,2 teenagers-8 months ago husband had mid life crisis and drunken moment and invited couple back for swopping-i was irate! and my feelings to him have changed.(see my prv post) looking at the relatonship I now see that he is unemotional and far too reserved. I think if i had sex with another man in front of him he would offer him a cup of tea! just feel he is indifferent to me! Had chat last night and he says he does love me but is controlled emotionally and that i have also withdrawn from him (admit i have!). Do i waste the rest of my life with Mr cool! but have a nice standard of living or do i cause mayhem and upset the family but get the chance of someone who i feel could really love me. How i wish he could
swear his undying love and shed a tear if i left!!!!