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post #16 of 32 (permalink) Old 12-27-2008, 12:20 AM
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I try to post where I can but I also kinda feel like a hypocrite giving someone else advice when I can't keep my own life straight.
I have just joined this site. I was looking for somewhere to write what I needed to about my situation and "dump" it. I ended up answering someone else before writing my own story.

Lostluv, I doubt very much that you will find a single person here - even the happily married ones and the therapist ones, who have it all together all of the time. We are all wounded healers and bring our own experiences, frustrations, and things we have learnt to the mix. Just finding others with similar stories helps to ease the sense of isolation. So chin up. I have no doubt that you input is as valuable as anyone else's.

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I try to post where I can but I also kinda feel like a hypocrite giving someone else advice when I can't keep my own life straight.
You personally have solved mysteries for me, that no one else has so far has even come close to

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Here on Talk About Marriage, we get a lot of new people every day who are looking for help with very difficult problems they are facing.

Thankfully, we have a bunch of regular members who post responses to people relatively quickly. Lately, most posts usually get a few responses within a day or two. We really appreciate the advice and opinions that these generous people have to offer, they can brighten someone's day or shed some additional light on a confusing situation.

But you don't have to be a "relationship guru" or "marriage counselor" to give people your opinion here... This is a public forum, and it helps to get opinions from people with different perspectives.

One of the remarkable things about listening and responding to the problems of others, is that it momentarily takes us out of our own problems and frustrations in life.

So I just wanted to take a second to encourage everyone seeking advice here for the first time to please post a response to someone else's plea for help. I'm sure they will greatly appreciate it; and who knows, you might get something out of it as well!

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Thank you for a wonderful place to come and discuss such important topics. I have had many qweb forums in the past, mostly automotive related and fun stuff, but this forum is truly a service to the global community. I was able to come here to "vent" my issues out and in doing so has brought many of the answers to light for me. My marriage is back on track and I greatly appreciate you for having a venue like this one for people to come together and to care for each other.

while I have learned that marriages take continuous work, I have began to walk the path of healing, I look forward to coming back several times a day to see what is new. Hopefully my experience will prove to be beneficial to others here, as others have been helpful to me.
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I feel the same way, I have already learned so much about my marriage, and life in general. I love to read others posts, and don't always post a response, then sometimes I do, but I do learn a lot from reading them. Of course ,my marriage isn't perfect either, who's is? But after reading some things, I really feel it will help me with some of the issues my marriage faces, and to become a better person maybe. Anyway, it's a great place to connect with people.
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I was searching for a place to get some advice from regular people because I know that I could learn alot from others. Also, I don't like talking to family or friends about relationship problems. I hope to learn alot, and possibly give out some wisdom of my own.
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post #22 of 32 (permalink) Old 03-26-2009, 11:53 PM
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this site is great my divorce has been hell on me and it is good to know i am not the only person who is going threw really hard and painfull times i think it is wonerful for people to reach out and give a helping hand to those who are just trying to find some answers to there confusing and painful situations thank you for creating this site God bless everyone
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I am posting this because there are people that need to know. My wife and i have been married for 19 years now. I have always known that I loved my wife. I used to travel for a living for many years, I never worried about my wife being unfaithful to me not once. Back in November of this year I noticed something was off in our relationship. There have been days that I just wondered about things I have never worried about before. I never questioned her because I was afraid of accusing her and then it becoming worse. I am a regular guy, I like to look at pretty women, I never try to do that where it will be offensive to my wife, but I can hang out with my buddies and say all kinds of things about women and what I would like to do and so on. i even said a time or 2 when a friend asked what if she was doing that I would say if she wants to go let her I dont care. Let me tell you how wrong i was. My wife had met someone on the net, she started having normal conversations with him and it became much more than that. Luckily they have never met, he lives out of state, and I caught on before it came to that. We are currently struggling with all of this, but I cant begin to tell you how I hurt so bad when I found all of this out. I know now just how much I love her and I want her here with me. I am willing to fix our problems and I will go to any distance to save our marriage. This is the problem, I was caught up in my own world working, and I neglected her, she found some comfort in a idiot on the net that was only wanting to hook up and he played her like a fool. Now none of that matters and i can only tell you that as mad as i became with her, I am willing to fight for her, and i will not ever take her for granite again. I just wanted to share this because if you love your spouse, then you should make it known every day. A good solid marriage isa hard to find, and you have no Idea how hard it is to deal with this kind of thing. i love my wife, and we are gonna make this work. the funny thing is neither of us wanted this to happen, we just looked the other way for a minute. if you love them you make damn sure they know it, Never let them be alone to feel unwanted!!!!
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So far, I love this site. I have read many threads of problems I have. It actually helps me to reply to a post and write something from my personal life. I hope this helps others, as I really think it is easy to not see solutions when you are deeply entrenched in your own situations.
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Can someone help me with a marriage problem in this forum i am new to this

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This is a unique forum whereby everybody is welcome to share his/her problem and give advice to each other.This type of open platform is very useful as you never know that when you can get solution to your problems as well while giving others advices.
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What type of problem are you going through?
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Good thought........
It is always good help others. Even i feel the same..
I do my best.. to help others,,,,
Even i got a suggestion from these threads which really helped me..thanks a lot....
Hope for the best!!!!!!!
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I appreciate the help I received when I posted about our marriage problem. I knew some of the answers but was not strong enough to stand up for myself. The way some of the answers were written, I was able to stand up for myself and admit my part in the problem and move forward. I credit this site for helping save our marriage.
Really!!
That sounds great! By seeing this post even i have decided to discuss my problem. Soon i will get back to you..
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I really like this web site, I wish I get some feedback on my problem, I have....
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