09-29-2009, 10:00 PM
Join Date: Jul 2008
| | Re: man's best friend
Some people would be OK with what your finance is doing, and some people wouldnt. no one is right or wrong. Its your personal preference. Its about what works in a relationship and not what if it is right for you to feel. If your fiance is completely comfortable with it then you are going to have a lot of problems because you two clash on how you feel about these things. he's going to end up feeling like you are controlling and that you dont love him. And you will feel like he doesnt love or respect you. Its not wrong that you feel this way, its not wrong that he may feel the opposite of you, but it may be wrong for the relationship. You might consider finding someone that feels the same as you do on this issue. Because to me, its a pretty big issue.
On the other hand, you could have some trust issues that will sabotage any relationship. have you been cheated on in the past? do you think you have trust issues?
"I'm a lover of what is, not because I'm a spiritual person, but because it hurts when I argue with reality."
- Bryon Katie