09-29-2009, 09:58 PM
Join Date: Sep 2009
| | Please take the kid!!! (for the night)
Wifey and I have been together for about 30 years, and married for 22 now. We tried and tried and tried for years without any kids. We tossed allot of money at the invetro thing with nothing but bills to show. We eventually turned to adoption, and 6 years ago we were blessed with a fantastic, 2 hour old baby girl! I still get chills remembering it! We were both 41 years old.
Life has run it's course, with diapers, day care, JK, SK, and now grade one. All is good except wifey and me. We have not been intimate for about a year now! The problem is no time together. Most new parents have parents to take the kids for the weekend, or at least the night! We have limited resources, and even worse wifey is such a worrier, that she will not tolerate anyone taking care of our girl. We are drifting further apart everyday, and I really need to throw a line to her.
How can I get her to agree to giving up control for a weekend, and getting down!!
I hope there is dear Abby or someone out there!