Re: Is my husband lying about emotional affair?
That's a strange thing to tell your wife. Very strange. Honestly, right at that moment I would have called the girl myself and asked her what the hell that comment meant.
Lying is a peace-keeping mechanism. A very bad one. They undermine trust in a big way. So even though the lies weren't about important/big things, you can't help but wonder when one of these lies is going to be about something important. If he can't tell the truth about dumb things, you have no confidence he'll tell you the truth in something like this. I wish people understood how damaging small lies are to the big picture.