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Old 10-13-2009, 03:21 AM   #1 (permalink)
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for those of you who followed the saga, and for those of you who are wondering what the heck... here's an update

he's gone.
for good.

and thank goodness too.

the way he left, i realize had he only said he was sorry, or showed an ounce of remorse, I would have yet again forgiven him and let him back into my home and heart. In retrospect, thank goodness he didn't.

I'm out of the hospital and healing - body and soul.

No, he didn't do it - his 17 yr old son did. And dad said he was PROUD of him for it. PRAISED him for it. Yep, after all of what he put me thru, that was the clincher.

I will always love the man he was - before his zombiehood took over. But he has finally done it.

I wish him well, and much happiness. Far, far away from me.

hugs everybody

Thank you so much everyone for all your advice, and help and words of encouragement.

DC said it best to me a few weeks ago when he said - "He is being such an a$$ you could ride him down the grand canyon and he won't miss a step."

and now, hopefully some peace for me.
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Old 10-13-2009, 01:14 PM   #2 (permalink)
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There you are!

I'm glad you are on the road to recovery. I suppose he made the decision for you and left?

I imagine you feel the darkness has left. I felt that way after my H left.

Hang in there...
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Old 11-07-2009, 10:27 PM   #3 (permalink)
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I'm hanging. I'm over him for the most part. Unless I hear his voice, or have to actually be in his presence. Then I'm still breaking down into tears. Otherwise, life goes on and I'm putting myself back together piece by piece.

I'm NOT sorry i did my best to save us. I truely think I did everything I could. And in the long dark lonely hours, sometimes that is the saving grace I have.

Could I have done any more? I don't think so.
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Old 11-07-2009, 11:37 PM   #4 (permalink)
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oh, this is going to be fun

i have a skid of popcorn warehoused

you were a whetstone to my intellectual hinkle, on occasion.

let the next cardassian 'never ending saga' begin, or continue

have a peruvian sliding frog, or more

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