10-22-2009, 04:06 PM
Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Near Chicago
| | Re: Family + Husband + Me = bad mix
If you are not married, and do not have kids with him, I think you should move on. You obviously are able to be empathetic towards your own family members with mental health issues & I don't see him stepping up any time soon to make sure you are happy...he said he would do anything to stay with you but wouldn't even give counseling an honest try.
I think he needs to be on his own...I don't think he has it in him to be in a mature relationship where wanting to make another person happy is a priority.