03-09-2008, 10:37 AM
Join Date: Mar 2008
| | Pregnant and wanting a divorce
I just cant seem to hold it toghther. I am recentley got married in July of 07' and I am missrable. First of all. He and I have been toghether for 7 years and everything was wonderful until the marriage. Since then, he has been binge drinking, staying out all hours of the night, passing out in front of the house in the middle of a Wisconsin winter night, not helping out around the house like he used too, in and out. Not to mention the sex has never been good. He has an issue with premature ejaculation and never takes the time to please me. I have never made this an issue to him. I feel bad for the guy. But I need to mention he watches a whole lot of porn. So go figure. I am very sexual and love sex. But I have always looked past that due to him being a good man. But now, theres nothing to hold on to. I am completley in love with him. I could really be with him for life, but he has really been showing me another side I cant be with. on top of all that I am 5 months pregnant and so misrable. I am depressed and fight hard to make it through a day without wanting to break down. I am a teacher so I really need to keep it toghther. I cant even tell my friends what I go through due to the embarresment. We always attended family events together before, but now its never, they just always ask where is------? I feel ashamed and angerd that I wasted everyones time and effort with throwing a wedding. We havent talked in 4 weeks because he is impossible to communicate with. He just says I making this all up. I am seeking a divorce but they said I have to wait for 2 months to file because I am pregnant. I have asked him to leave but says hes not going anywhere,(Continues to stay in the basement.) and there will be not divorcing going on, that he loves me. Whatever. I have told him his actions show different.
I cant beleive this happenes after I got prgnant and married, boy you think you know someone after 7 years. Any advice?