Advise needed - Page 2

swedish · 03-13-2008, 12:26 PM

You are welcome. Without going into detail and hijacking your post with my own story, what I gave you is based on my own personal experience and feelings, which I'm still dealing with myself. So while I certainly don't have all the answers, I do know how she must be feeling.

ben13 · 03-13-2008, 02:39 PM

Well I very much appreciate your input and am grateful that someone has finally said something that makes alot of sense.

ben13 · 03-14-2008, 10:50 AM

swedish - Well I got my partner to read your post and guess what... She agreed with everything you said. She even said you MUST be a woman going through a very similar thing (this was before she had any idea that your a female in a similar situation to us)!!!!!!!!!!

Well we talked alot last night and i told her everything that happened with my ex. I told her how sorry I am and how I too have to live with what I did evry single day.

We even had quite a long cuddle before bed which REALLY suprised me as I thought she'd want to disembowel me!

Just thought I'd let you know how helpful you have been to us and wish you all the best in your relationship.

Thank you

swedish · 03-14-2008, 11:03 AM

Hi Ben,

That is so great to hear. I'm really glad you were able to talk and feel closer to each other. I wish the best for both of you going forward. Take care.