HEADENDTECH

Hello all, I have two issues ,the first one is Ive noticed my wife is not wearing her wedding ring all the time. I know its not a big issue but she used to wear it all the time and were married 14 yrs this nov 4...should i be concerned...Also second, and this has been bothering me she went to a concert with her gf on our 14 wedding anniversary she asked me if i wanted to go and if it was ok I like an idiot said yes..but it still bothers me a lot...what can i do...

tryingtocope24

My friend let me tell you, My wife has not been home on our anniversary for the past three years because of visiting family and stopped wearing her wedding ring this past spring ( because it made her finger red and gave a rash) we have been married 24 years and together 30. Well in April i got the I love you but and it has been a nightmare since. If i were you I would do what ever changes you think you might need to do but it my be to late. If she is ahving a midlife crisis like my wife there is nothinmg you can do. Just hope you can be there when they come out of it and she still wants to be with you. I thought i had a great marriage and all our friends did to. No one saw it coming.
I can only hope for you your situation is not like mine. Start talking and really see where she is with your relationship.
Good Luck

aberrant

Be happy you are catching it before it becomes something bigger. Talk to her about it, or think about which of her needs you might not be meeting. You've caught this thing in a treatable stage instead of the terminal stage when most of us realizes what is happening to us.