03-29-2008, 08:37 PM
Join Date: Feb 2008
| | Re: Help!! Love ..marriage ..compromise
Wondering out loud:
Why is it so strange to people when the guy has a lower labido then the women (it is almost treated as a sinful act)?
I'll tell you why, Draconis... it's b/c it's plastered EVERYWHERE that the man is a "horn dog" and thinks about nothing else... magazines, commercials, radio, talk shows, it doesn't matter where you look, society is saturated with sex and predominantly with the man wanting it and the woman "having a headache".
Sure, it's like a victoria's secret catalog, it's all air brushed and photo shop'd, but does it make everyone think that it's not real when they see it?? No, we still believe it's attainable. Most men get turned on if the breeze blows their way, but then there are the fewer, such as this case, and such as the case with my husband, where the libido is lower than the woman's. It's a tough situation, belive me, hence the reason I found this forum is b/c my husband's libido is lower than the average portrayed male.