12-18-2009, 02:08 PM
Join Date: Aug 2008
Location: Yorkshire, UK
| | Re: Great....now what?!
Originally Posted by lostluv
Holding back from what? Or who?
Can you elaborate?
Well, if you hold back a little piece of yourself to stop yourself getting hurt, then you won't feel the full depth of the rapport. However, most of what people feel is an illusion anyway.
On a long term basis, what people need is to be able to get along and work things out when they hit a snag. If you want it to last more than 2-5 years, that's the sort of question you need to ask yourself.
With your last guy, the working relationship was not good, so there was no deal and little practical negotiation. Is this guy any better for you?