Re: what are signs your spouse really dont want to divorce but is still closed off
They have it on Amazon. Also they have a Divorce Busting site with a forum where people write in what they have tried to help their relationships and what has worked and what has not. It has some interesting insight, but it is also scary. Some people on that board have been trying to fix their marriages for three or more years.
I will also say that my husband made the comment to me that he has lost trust and is protecting his feelings in some way from me. So maybe that's why he acts like that after we've obviously had a pretty good time. He wants to put his guard back up so as not to get hurt. Or he wants to get revenge? I'm not sure. I try to be positive and assume it is just because he is depressed or scared, but I'm not sure.