Oh yes! I forgot to tell you guys...My ex called today to ask if he could come over, while I was gone to do some stuff at the house. It's his now and I said "yes."
He chatted for about 15 minutes about misc. things. He said he would like to keep me on his auto insurance, if that was ok as he feels that it would be cheaper if we all stayed together. (duh-it would be really cheap for me that way). "Sure that sounds good" I said.
Then, he told me that he'd like to keep me as beneficiary on all of his accounts and life insurance as he doesn't have anyone else he wants to put on. "Sure that sounds ok" I said.
He then chit chatted awhile longer.
Then several hours later he asked about my trip out of town to visit a family member (for the day). He asked about my family. He asked about my friends. He said he liked talking to me and didn't see a reason as to why we shouldn't talk like this. I didn't say anything regarding that statement.
He offered his money to my mom/husband as they are having financial problems. I told him thanks.
He asked if he could manage my money that I left behind with him (he's a stockbroker). I said "sure...are you soliciting me?" He laughed. He said "S..you know I will always take care of you."
Right!!
notaclue: This is his same ole mixed messages that he's given me the whole time. He still loves me..I know this and he's said so. I still love him. Maybe he loves me like______ (you fill in the blank). I don't know.
No surprise here-it must be the friendship thing that brings him back.
I'm turning red in the face -- favorite list. Yes I know. Just trying to figure out how to get you back here to the south. Ya know Charlotte aint that too far from Aiken --- and its better. Good ole grits and barbecue.
Hynd, take a look at CW's other thread The Real World. And if you knew all that she has gone through on top of her marriage situation -- you would be amazed and inspired even more. She is strong, well grounded, and yet has that curiosity of more.
Are you blushing CW?
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Kindness, Caring, Love and Understanding for Me, for Her and my son. Well not so much for Her anymore.
Geesh FA, I thought your threads were long! oh well, guess I'll make coffee, looks like its gonna be another long night. I feel like you guys reading NMMNG, just cant put it down....
hynd: FA is right about my other thread "The Real World." This is the one after my divorce and that has been since Jan. 6th! Whew! Prepare for a read of pain.
Anyway....today my ex calls to stop by to do something to the boat (doesn't run). He called before and I just got home.
My D and I sat down to watch a Scary Movie 4 (midpart). My ex chatted and he said how tired he was. I was also and was fixing to take an afternoon nap. He asked if he could nap here. I said "sure" (guestroom I am thinking).
I said I am going upstairs "later." They stayed for a little while later. I got to tell you all....I was surprised that he didn't follow me for his "nap." Just got the vibe.
Well gotta go for coffee guys. Such an interesting life.
No he didn't nap here. I went upstairs for my nap. If I would have invited him...he would have "napped" here. HA! I didn't. He left 10 minutes later with our D.
Coffee was a bust. He didn't show. I came home to an email how he ended up having his D for the evening. I think he knew we had mutual friends and bolted! I knew a little too much about him....
Re: The Real World cont....after the divorce.
