Re: 2 months and still hurting
Hey ladies....I'll join in with you in the lonely club. My h has been gone two months as well...and this is the hardest it's been since he left. Well, actually I asked him to leave....but I still feel the same as you both do. Maybe this is the worst month and it will get better after this??? We can hope. Honestly...I don't know how to get past him. It sucks. All of it.
And the texting only thing. I don't like that either. In a way it feels disrespectful. I mean its like....I was good enough to talk to before....why not now? I am seriously thinking about having my cell number changed just to avoid the texting. Then he will have to call me on the home phone to discuss anything.
Lonely: I don't know the background....but chances are when he talks he is just blowing smoke. I don't know of anybody that has real emotions and a concience that can walk away from a relationship and be completely happy. My first husband was abusuve, and leaving him was the best thing I could have ever done....and in some ways I was so much happier. But even with that situation....I missed him...at least the good parts of him....I missed the good times we had together. So just ignore the comments....especially from "friends" and even more so his mom. She'll say anything in his favor. And if she doesn't want you two together, then she'll really say anything.
Keep your chin up...it's gotta get better at some point!
One breath at a time, one minute at a time, one day at a time. I will survive!