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Join Date: May 2015
Location: Southern USA
| | Re: So my wife likes girls!
This is an old post but I know a few guys like this and never understood why they were not as happy about having a bisexual wife as I am. I think it is because they picture their wife having girlfriends which is the same as having boyfriends in their mind.
It does not have to be like that. It can be a very pleasurable sex life. My wife is bisexual but I did not know it when we married and neither did she. She made it work. Instead of dating women to satisfy that need in her, she arranged FFM threesome; a few thousand over the last 40 years since she also had a steady girlfriend who lives with us part time.
The threesomes were a lot of fun. We also ran into couples where the husband wanted to watch his wife with another woman so he and me would watch as our wives put on a great show for us. Once again, no threat to our marriage. We met a lot of bi-curious women who preferred a FFM thressome rather than just girl on girl. In their mind it was just sharing a man and that did not make them feel like a lesbian, so they said. It also gave them an out in case they did not like sex with another woman. They could just concentrate on me.
My wife has not desire to have sex with other men or sex with women that does not involve me, even if just to watch. In fact, during our threesomes my wife would stop what she was doing if I left the room and then resume when I got back. Back then she needed to think she was just putting on a show for me rather than being bisexual.
Our girlfriend got married after about 13 years to a man who was OK with her having sex with me and my wife. I could not do let my wife do that. Find your comfort level and communicate with your wife. There are options like swingers clubs where you can just watch while she is with another woman although most woman are not like my wife because they want their first few times with a female to be private.
Make rules like she cannot date someone more than X number of times. Have her inform her dates that she is in a committed relationship and is not looking for a relationship. You can make it work if you try. It worked for us. It worked for our girlfriend and her husband. You too can make it work.