And I am NOT happy about it. I found an MP3 file on her computer where a girl was saying how she was happy to hear her voice, etc. A quick check into her email account and I discovered how she has been sending women nasty messages and masturbating at 4am in the morning while I am sleep. I am pretty sure she was putting on web shows etc, she took her computer to the bathroom. While she did not physically cheat this was a lot for me to take in. I caved when I told her what I found and she just looked at me like "and?" I feel she has completely disrespected our marriage and does not even care. We were high school sweethearts and as it turns out she is bi-curious. here is a link to the message I found. So I guess I'll start dating again. Do you guys think I overreacted?
blacksage, I have to say that I'm having a hard time coming up with any advice or thoughts on this, as I can't get past that you would post that message. I understand that you are hurt and upset, but IMO, revealing names and personal information about others, obviously without their permission, is really out of line.
I didnt think about that, but i took the message down. It does not give a full name and she posted it online on a forum as well, I just copied and pasted the link. dont think that I hacked a voicemail account and created that file. She is on a site llisted as a married woman and I guess they dont care.