Oh my god..when I thought it couldn't get worse...the plot thickens
I've posted my situation here already but a quick overview
-wife doesn't want to be with me right now
-she was already seeing someone else
-we still live together because she isn't working now
-2 kids together
-I still love her...too much I'm told
So the new development now is that she's pregnant....I know, crazy right? Not only that, but she doesn't know if myself or the OM is the father...we haven't had a conception date confirmed yet, but the chance is there that it's not mine.
If the child isn't mine then I'm completely out for good...do not pass Go..do not collect $200, and she knows this and it scares her because she wants to keep the option of us reconciling later there.
I'm still moving out when we get our finances a little more under control, but what in the holy hell am I supposed to do with this now?????
She told me that she's not sure if she wants to keep the baby if it isn't my child, because she doesn't want a kid with this guy at all (yeah, wrap it up then right) but also because he's not from the state we live in and she thinks he'll try to bolt back to his home state when the child is born....he's already told her that if the child isn't is then he wants nothing to do with her and if it is then he wants custody and she can see the child if he needs her to.
What did I do to deserve this and what should I do now???