02-27-2010, 05:00 PM
Join Date: Feb 2010
| | Re: Current thoughts
I don't know how you do it man, I tried to help her pack her things to move and I just couldn't do it, it was just too hard. Once it was all packed and ready to go I helped her move it all out and that was hard enough. The house feels so empty ever since, just not home anymore.
As for her leading you along, I agree that's got to be one of the hardest things. If my W would've just left when she began feeling this way, it would be hard but the infidelity wouldn't have been there to make it that much worse. Not only that but mine came back after she left the first time saying she screwed up and wanted to make it right but continued leading me on for another month while she continued the affair. I think we both deserve an open and honest explanation as to how and why they could do this but like you said we'll never get it.
Hang in there man, hope the best for you.
btw, did you ever make a decision on if your taking the house or not?