03-09-2010, 10:04 AM
Join Date: Jan 2010
Location: Ontario, Canada
| | Husband has Girlfriend
I am kind of freaking out. My husband moved out on Jan. 31, 2010. He told me he did not know if he wanted to be with me anymore so he had to move out to figure this out.
Well today I found out he has a girlfriend. On saturday he took our 2 kids and his new girlfriend out to dinner and the movies. He then told the kids not to tell me.
I am so angry because he put the kids in the middle of this situation. He never told me he had a girlfriend I found out from my daughter. She did not want to tell me but finally she did. At first she lied to me and said she did not know if he had a girlfriend. Now she is afraid her father is going to be angry with her for telling me.
I have not confronted him about this and I have decided not to right now because i do not want to put the kids in the middle any more than he has put them.
I love my kids and do not want them to be hurt anymore than they are.
He is the one that keeps telling me he does not want to put the kids in the middle then he does this.