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post #406 of 414 (permalink) Old 04-13-2017, 07:58 AM
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Re: how do I at least make one last attempt

The push / pull is very common with people first dating after a long term M. You get those feelings

going and you want to wade in more..... then you remember what happened the last time you

went into the water. A Hangover Crew friend recently went through the same thing last year.

Quite a few females on OLD who are coming out of 15-20 year M, get more attention than they

have had since... well HS or maybe when she first started seeing her XH. The deal is... most of

the guys showing attention, are after sex (often women trade sex for attention, men attention for sex).

After they get burned a few times they just collect the attention and stop taking the risk.

I'm sure guys are the same way but since..... I don't date guy, I wouldn't know

As for your "special XW" ..... she's like my ex aunt, gotta have drama or they get bored to death.

Sad part is... she isn't alone on mom's side of the family. Reason I knew a long time ago, after mom

passes, I wash my hands of her family.


A-Every single thing that has ever happened in your life is preparing you for a moment that is yet to come.
B-We know what we are, but know not what we may be
C-Never make the person in your present pay for the sins committed by people from your past

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Wow Honcho, I just read your story... UNREAL!! I had no idea of the nightmare that you have been through to get your divorce! Much respect to you, sir.

Life is too short to spend time with people who suck the happiness out of you.

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Wow Honcho, I just read your story... UNREAL!! I had no idea of the nightmare that you have been through to get your divorce! Much respect to you, sir.
With all due respect, how did you miss it?

Honcho's ex is the only one crazier than Ceegee's
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With all due respect, how did you miss it?

Honcho's ex is the only one crazier than Ceegee's
Good question! lol.. I just never did click into this thread for whatever reason!

Actually LoneShadow's ex was this bat**** as well...

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We can't forget Script's.... the "Princess Lizard"

A-Every single thing that has ever happened in your life is preparing you for a moment that is yet to come.
B-We know what we are, but know not what we may be
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We can't forget Script's.... the "Princess Lizard"
They all make Window Cork look like a tower of strength.
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We can't forget Script's.... the "Princess Lizard"
Unfortunately there are too many "memorable" ones on this site.

Tomorrow is the most important thing in life. Comes into us at midnight very clean. It's perfect when it arrives and it puts itself in our hands. It hopes we've learned something from yesterday
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Unfortunately there are too many "memorable" ones on this site.
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They all make Window Cork look like a tower of strength.
Well from the pic I posted of her on here.... GP did say she had great strength... like in the shot put

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