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post #106 of 414 (permalink) Old 10-31-2014, 03:26 AM Thread Starter
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He swore out a deposition over a year ago stating the tank was his property. His attorney today sent a letter to judge refreshing his memory on this point and informing them that if they attempt to enter his property chasing this nonsense he will take every legal action in his power to stop the unlawful sale of his property.
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And now today she is tried to get money out of my checking account. She really has too much free time.
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And now today she is tried to get money out of my checking account. She really has too much free time.
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Madness can be a permanent state. She is not medication, right?

You need to date and start a new life.
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She was on meds for several years while we were together. She decided to quit taking them about 2 months before she left. No idea if she ever started taking it again or if she has new ones. She needs a rubber room and keep away from sharp objects.
I have a date tomorrow actually. I wish she would finally start a new life since she wanted this so bad and just leave me out of it.
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Some mentally ill people know they shouldn't marry. My brother suffered schizophrenia. He had a girlfriend but didn't marry.
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Does she look well ?
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No she didn't look well.
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Found out why she has too much free time. Guess who doesn't go to work anymore? I just knew that was coming.....
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Today the lunatic filed for another false R/O. She had six pages worth of rantings in the statement ranging from stalking to her claims that she has seen me drive by the house with my friend Joe to see what is going on. I don't have a friend named Joe. I haven't driven past the house.

She claimed I am hurting and manipulating her thru my attorney. I am supposedly stealing her mail, and apparently I have been doing this since the beginning as she said I was stealing her parents mail when she was living there as well as other apartments she had. I never knew she was living with her parents or half the apartments she supposedly had. Her parents live about 45 minutes away in a different county. Im driving around that much to check the mail? For what a bill from her lawyer?

She is scared because I am fighting her every step of the way in the divorce and she feels threatened by this. Funny I keep begging for a court date and her lawyer files for delays.

Every single item in this R/O is fantasy and got weirder the more she wrote. She fears I will snap I am trying to kill her also which of course was the last paragraph along with her begging for help and rantings about how I kept her as a sex slave and maid.

The help she needs is a rubber room and straight jacket. They of course gave her the temp order because we have to humor the crazy. So more wasted time and money defending myself from her nonsense and this will no doubt create yet another delay in the divorce that will never end.

It sure is a good thing she wanted this divorce and all I wanted to do was cut a deal and get it done. I do wish she would get over this obsession and fear she has going on. She just wont let go and I got no way to get rid of her.

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Today the lunatic filed for another false R/O. She had six pages worth of rantings in the statement ranging from stalking to her claims that she has seen me drive by the house with my friend Joe to see what is going on. I don't have a friend named Joe. I haven't driven past the house.

She claimed I am hurting and manipulating her thru my attorney. I am supposedly stealing her mail, and apparently I have been doing this since the beginning as she said I was stealing her parents mail when she was living there as well as other apartments she had. I never knew she was living with her parents or half the apartments she supposedly had. Her parents live about 45 minutes away in a different county. Im driving around that much to check the mail? For what a bill from her lawyer?

She is scared because I am fighting her every step of the way in the divorce and she feels threatened by this. Funny I keep begging for a court date and her lawyer files for delays.

Every single item in this R/O is fantasy and got weirder the more she wrote. She fears I will snap I am trying to kill her also which of course was the last paragraph along with her begging for help and rantings about how I kept her as a sex slave and maid.

The help she needs is a rubber room and straight jacket. They of course gave her the temp order because we have to humor the crazy. So more wasted time and money defending myself from her nonsense and this will no doubt create yet another delay in the divorce that will never end.

It sure is a good thing she wanted this divorce and all I wanted to do was cut a deal and get it done. I do wish she would get over this obsession and fear she has going on. She just wont let go and I got no way to get rid of her.
When is she going to be institutionalized already.
This is f^cking nuts she has such a long history of this crap I mean ugh!
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Too bad you can't move further away, and just have your lawyer take care of it.

The family justice system is a joke.

I am surprise that the court doesn't get her evaluated.

Can you seek a different judge, as this judge seems incompetent.

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Too bad you can't move further away, and just have your lawyer take care of it.

The family justice system is a joke.

I am surprise that the court doesn't get her evaluated.

Can you seek a different judge, as this judge seems incompetent.
I have lived here most of my life. I am actually pretty well known and respected in my community. Ill sound all territorial but im not getting run out of my town by this girl. She isn't from around here and everyone keeps hoping she will just go away.

This judge is a moron, he recused himself once only to change his mind. I am friends or have business relationships with the other judges in the county so im stuck with Mr. Brilliant who cant make a decision. Nobody has run into a fiasco like mine, at least around here so they are all in uncharted waters. If we could ever get out of the soap opera we have a simple divorce.
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I have lived here most of my life. I am actually pretty well known and respected in my community. Ill sound all territorial but im not getting run out of my town by this girl. She isn't from around here and everyone keeps hoping she will just go away.

This judge is a moron, he recused himself once only to change his mind. I am friends or have business relationships with the other judges in the county so im stuck with Mr. Brilliant who cant make a decision. Nobody has run into a fiasco like mine, at least around here so they are all in uncharted waters. If we could ever get out of the soap opera we have a simple divorce.
And my mom wonders why I don't want to get married.

Are you dating, or just done with women at the moment?

I don't think I can go that long without a female companion.

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Did her lawyer help her with the RO? If so, keep pursuing him.

Is the house fixed?
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