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post #121 of 414 (permalink) Old 11-15-2014, 02:32 AM Thread Starter
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Her lawyer is on vacation and left a few days ago. She came up with this bright idea all on her own. No idea on house. I was too busy talking to my new imaginary friend Joe when I was driving by to take a close look at it I guess. Haha She created a mess with the mortgage and spent part of day dealing with bank. They didn't bring up any condition issues and I wasn't going to ask.
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Is the judge elected or appointed?
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He is elected. He was never a good attorne . Went bankrupt in private practice. Got a public defender job for a few years and then ran for judge and somehow got elected . My case was his first divorce case so I got the judge with training wheels
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When does he come up for re-election? Go after him then by supporting an opponent.
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When does he come up for re-election? Go after him then by supporting an opponent.
2016 my divorce will still be going on. I HOPE the next clown is better or less stupid, maybe then I got a shot at getting this done.
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Got word today that her father passed away two weeks ago. He was Ill with Alzheimer's for 3 years. She was very close to her father and the only family member I liked really.
My lawyer figures that this will push her farther down into her depression and craziness which probably has some factor in the r/o she pulled last week.
Every brother and sister she has has had there marriages wrecked by infidelity. They have all been BS. My stbx is the only WS of the bunch and they all know what she did. They may publically support her story but I considering how much her family loves to fight to begin with. The emotionally charged situation I'm sure they expressed the displeasure of her "situation".

When her grandmother died years ago the family fought like cats and dogs over all the stuff and did it for months. My stbx actually quit talking to her family for an entire year over wicker patio furniture which was junk. And I wonder why we are fighting over decoys and taxidermy?
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post #127 of 414 (permalink) Old 11-18-2014, 04:27 AM
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Every family needs a special case.

Perhaps, everyone should do a background check and psych evaluation on each other , before marriage.

Yes, I am serious too.

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Hope you get the duck back.
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Hope you get the duck back.
I still have the ducks. They are in my underground bunker with the 40 thousand plus rounds of ammo she claims I have guarded by my imaginary friend Joe.
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Forty-thousand rounds of .22 caliber bullets?

You're Machiavelli approved.

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imaginary guards are the best, it is like there not even there.

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Forty-thousand rounds of .22 caliber bullets?

You're Machiavelli approved.
12 gauge ammo. She claims I have 175 cases worth 150 bucks a case which comes to 43750 rounds and worth $26250. How or why she ever arrived at those magic numbers I will never know.

She also knows that when I used to shoot trap league I reloaded my own shells and even using today component prices I can reload a case for 48.80. Why in the world I would spend 150 bucks when I could make for them for 49 bucks?
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12 gauge ammo. She claims I have 175 cases worth 150 bucks a case which comes to 43750 rounds and worth $26250. How or why she ever arrived at those magic numbers I will never know.

She also knows that when I used to shoot trap league I reloaded my own shells and even using today component prices I can reload a case for 48.80. Why in the world I would spend 150 bucks when I could make for them for 49 bucks?
So where is your bunker?
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Having read this and your other threads, I -- and YOU (and most people here on TAM) -- have concluded she is mentally ill.

You can't reason with someone who is mentally ill. The cops don't want to deal with her. My guess is the doctors don't want to deal with her anymore either. Her own lawyer knows she's cRaZy.

honcho, for your own well-being, let this go. Don't second-guess yourself. There is a beautiful life waiting for you on the other side of this insanity

Honestly, your wife probably belongs in an asylum or a sanitorium.

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Having read this and your other threads, I -- and YOU (and most people here on TAM) -- have concluded she is mentally ill.

You can't reason with someone who is mentally ill. The cops don't want to deal with her. My guess is the doctors don't want to deal with her anymore either. Her own lawyer knows she's cRaZy.

honcho, for your own well-being, let this go. Don't second-guess yourself. There is a beautiful life waiting for you on the other side of this insanity

Honestly, your wife probably belongs in an asylum or a sanitorium.
Whats to let go? It left long ago. At one point in this I offered to walk away from everything and that wasn't good enough. The nutjob wont let it end and the world humors the crazy, so until they quit humoring her I got no real options.
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