04-11-2010, 07:01 PM
Join Date: Nov 2009
| | When the OW meets your kid....
Ok, so my stbx basically left me for another woman. He denies it, and denies that they're dating, but I know he's kissed her, and I know he's slept with her because he told me. But now he's starting to bring her around my son and it absolutely KILLS me. How do I handle this? It hurts so much when my son comes home and says Ms. XXX did this, and Ms. XXX gave me this. It is sooo painful. I don't care about what they do together, but I really don't want her around my son. If it was some random girl he met after we separated, fine, I'd be ok with that. But this girl is part of the reason we aren't a family anymore and now she's spending time with my child. Anyone have any advice on what I can do to get past this? I know it's going to continue, even though I've told him I don't want her around him. He said it's not my choice. How do I deal with this?