Re: Missing my wife
I don't really think there is anything I can do about it. It is really up to her, and I have told her that I would be back if she wanted to try. I am not trying to get back together at the moment, just doing my thing and she is doing hers. I don't think she will miss me as her sister has moved next door and will be bad mouthing me every chance she gets, every day. That is how she is, so she will lead my wife down that path as well, I have seen this happen before. Talked to my kids tonight and they are coming to my new place for the weekend, but I work saturdays so they will come to work with me and hang out, which my daughter loves to do. My son will be bored, but there isn't much I can do about that. And we will have Sat night and all day Sunday to be together. My son asked if I wanted to talk to my wife on the phone tonight, and I said that no, I didn't think so. I am not really giving her space, I am just living like we are through and will see what happens on her end as time goes by. Haven't melted down yet for 3 days now I think, almost a few times today but for some reason I can't seem to get there. I have a photo of us on the wall right above my bed I can look at. I know that she took the photo that was on our bedroom wall of us down, so that as well indicates that she is done. Rather scared to have to start over, financially as well as emotionally/physically with somebody else, and I don't want to be single for the rest of my life. Like I said, just sucks all the way around. Thanks for the replies, at least we are not alone.