05-12-2010, 10:17 AM
Join Date: Apr 2010
| | Re: Separated for two months...
That's the best way to handle this ERR, to keep living your life the best you can. Remember if we all show them how hurt we are, and how our life seems empty, instead of attracting them, they will reject us.
There is a reason why they fell in love with us, why they married us, and if we were at fault, why they separated us because we used to be different. If we need to work on ourselves, we should not pretend we are different, but really make a change in our lives look at our flaws and try to work on them.
It's been just 5 weeks since our separation and I haven't seen any change, it is still premature though. Now I can say that I am feeling more alive than in the last 2 years we were together, after marriage I got into a state of passiveness, numbness because I had everything I wanted in life and at the same time I stopped paying attention to life itself.
Remember this, "Stop and smell the roses", even in our darkest hours there is hope, hope to change, hope to reconcile, and always, no matter what happens, our main goal should be to be happy and not to be afraid of living our lives alone or accompanied. Believe me our attitude is the one that dictates our lives, and if we have a good attitude towards life, we may even make our wives to fall in love again OR not but at the end we are going to taste life, sense life and live our lives.
Last edited by stbxhmaybe; 05-12-2010 at 10:39 AM.