Join Date: Nov 2012
Location: Where I lay my head
Re: Long sotry, prob familar. Need some support
ok guess I just think different. I feel they should treat you the way they did before the marriage. I don't want to train someone how to treat me, I want someone who already treats me in a way that is acceptable to me otherwise why even be with them. I don't want to change the other person I want to find a person that is themselves and understands how to treat others especially someone they want to spend their life with. I have heard too many of my friends make comments about training their husband is like training a puppy and I just don't agree. You love a person for who they are and that would include how they treat others. That being said you can discuss boundaries that accidentally get crossed (given it isn't a trust breaking boundary) but hopefully all that happens prior to marriage. That way all the cards are on the table going into the marriage. Maybe I am just hopeless romantic or optimistic but it just makes things better.
The steak is juicy.
There is juice amidst the steak.
A-Every single thing that has ever happened in your life is preparing you for a moment that is yet to come.
B-We know what we are, but know not what we may be
C-Never make the person in your present pay for the sins committed by people from your past